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Welcome to the Dating Unsettled Show where we dare to date differently hosted by me, Joy Ofodu. Dating Unsettled is about rejecting the rules, traumas, cultural expectations, pessimism and pressures of today’s dating pool. Watch this space: we’re positioned to become the leading destination for women and Black daters to laugh about shared experiences & challenge the dating status quo.

Unsettlers share: this show inspires them to date through difficulty, download and invest in their dating life, ask out their crush, leave toxic relationships and my fav — refuse to settle.

On the podcast, I share my story of finding healthy Black love after over 160 matches and answering questions from Unsettlers about the love they’re manifesting. Dream with us.

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What UNSETTLERS

say about THE SHOW

I Couldn't Stop Laughing

This podcast is incredibly entertaining and energizing. Joy's impressions, voiceovers, and stories had me cackling in my car. Can't wait for the next episode.
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Being Brave!

Joy's journey and real talk videos (@joyofodu) gave me a push I needed to get out of my fears and into the dating pool. Love is worth the challenge and I'm betting this series will help me navigate the trauma...
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YES PLEASE!

LOVED the episode and I just love the different voice overs you do! It makes it seem like you're really talking to me as a listener. Excited for more episodes!
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Unsettled on YouTube

I thoroughly enjoyed this. Made me feel that I wasn't alone.
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Can't wait for more episodes!

I really enjoyed it. There wasn't a dull moment - I was hooked from the start to the end. It was relatable - I smiled, laughed, nodded, and teared up a bit.
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Too excited!

I'm not even single, but I'm tuning in because Joy is a character, and the trailer alone had me smiling ear to ear. So fun! So real! We all need this podcast in our lives!
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Unsettled on YouTube

Great insights from Shayne on the typecasting we impose on heterosexual single black men. Joy you always have me rolling..."that's unsettling" and the randomly cued handclaps gets me everytime!
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